Do Your Older Clients A Favor: Warn Them About This Scam

Sep 5, 2019 | aging, aging investor, cost of aging, declining health, diminished cognition, elder investor, elderly, finances for elders, financial advisors, financial capacity, financial elder abuse, financial judgement, handling money for seniors, investor

Attempts to scam money from seniors never stop. And the thieves keep getting better at thinking up ways to extract information from older folks. Here’s another one—a different phony Medicare trick.

People hear ads on TV about genetic testing and how it can predict disease and protect them. They also hear ads that they’re not getting all the Medicare benefits they deserve. Who doesn’t want to get all the benefits they should get? It’s a perfect moment for scammers.

They may call your retirement-aged client and tell them that new genetic testing is available that Medicare will pay for, worth thousands of dollars. Of course, all your client has to do is to give them their Social Security number and the free testing kit, signup papers, or other inducement will be mailed to them immediately.

Let’s be clear: Medicare does not pay for genetic testing as a “new benefit”. If for any reason such testing were needed, a physician would order it and explain why it was needed. Such testing would not be ordered without any discussion with one’s MD.

Your client should never, ever give out a Social Security number or other personal information such as date of birth or address over the phone. Your client must never accept a genetic testing kit not ordered by one’s own doctor. If it is accepted and the cheek swab, DNA test or anything else is given to the sender, your client may be billed directly, potentially incurring a debt for thousands of dollars. It would be a sad day for your client to mail in a claim for reimbursement to Medicare for a fake benefit and realize that the claim is denied. They’re on the hook for the full price.

These kinds of scams are used to get information to commit identity theft and Medicare fraud. No matter how smart your client is, anyone can be caught off guard and tricked.

What Advisors Can Do

Here are some ways to let your client know you care about their financial safety.

Prepare a friendly form letter to send to all clients over age 65 and inform them about this scam. Warn them not to fall for it.
Keep abreast of all the latest scams in over 30 categories at the Federal Trade Commission, which explains what they are and how they work. Keep clients advised.

If identity theft has happened, direct your client to the Federal Trade Commission website for instruction on what to do.

Carolyn Rosenblatt, RN, Elder law attorney, AgingInvestor.com

About Carolyn Rosenblatt and Dr. Mikol Davis

Carolyn Rosenblatt and Dr. Mikol Davis are co-authors of The Family Guide to Aging Parents (www.agingparents.com) and Succeed With Senior Clients: A Financial Advisors Guide To Best Practices. Rosenblatt, a registered nurse and elder law attorney, has more than 45 years combined experience in her professions. She has been quoted in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Money magazine and many other publications. Davis, a clinical psychologist and gerontologist, has more than 44 years experience as a mental health provider. In addition to serving his patients, Davis creates online courses and products to assist professionals and the public with understanding aging issues. Rosenblatt and Davis have been married for 34 years.

What To Do When Your Aging Client’s Health Is Failing

Apr 17, 2017 | aging, declining health, elderly, financial capacity, financial judgement, handling money for aging parents, health, resources for senior, resources for seniors, Uncategorized

What To Do When Your Aging Client's Health Is Failing

Financial professionals can find themselves in an uncomfortable position when they have a long time aging client who is in declining health. Of course, you know the client and can see that she's struggling with a lot of issues. You may want to do something but this stuff is just not in your wheelhouse. Longevity is great but not when you start to lose the ability to manage on your own. What are you supposed to do for these clients?

You're trained to understand economics, taxes, financial products, planning. But you're not trained to direct aging people to whatever resources they may need as they get older. If they have family, you may expect family to step up, but you see that it may not be happening. Should you call them? Do you even know them? Do you have your client's permission? And what if they don't have family? That's even worse. Here they are getting frail and more vulnerable by the day and you are just watching helplessly.

It doesn't have to be that way. You can get acquainted with some basic resources in your area and the areas where your clients live. Maybe they never figured they'd live so long as to actually need help. When they do, you can be a starting point to help them find what's out there.

Let's imagine you have an aging client who is having trouble getting around and she needs some help with chores at home. She tells you about it when you ask her how things are going. She is shy to ask for help and reluctant to admit that it's harder and harder to live alone. You don't know what to say. Or do you?

One source of help everyone should know about is the Area Agency on Aging. These Federally funded programs connect elders to appropriate community organizations and places to get assistance. Their mission is to help older adults and people with disabilities live with dignity and choices in their homes and communities for as long as possible.

AAAs contract with local service providers to deliver many direct services, such as meals, transportation and in-home services. However, most agencies are direct providers of Information and Referral/Assistance, case management, benefits/health insurance counseling and family caregiver support programs.

Some are incorporated into a county's health and human services departments. Some are separate. Large states have many AAAs. Smaller less populated states have fewer of them.

One thing you can do now to be ready to assist your own client who may demonstrate a need is to research where the nearest Area Agency on Aging is in your client's community, download a brochure or information package and let your client know it's there. If he needs help at home, transportation services, vetted information about local service providers, an AAA is a great place to start.

This whole aging client issue can be a reflection of things you have experienced in your own family. Perhaps you have an aging parent or ill grandparent. Another problem solving source of information is our book the Family Guide to Aging Parents: Answers to Your Legal, Healthcare and Financial Questions

. Learn what's in it here. It can get you more comfortable with those difficult conversations.

Carolyn Rosenblatt, RN, Elder law attorney

AgingInvestor.com and AgingParents.com

One Man’s Shock At His Adult Children’s Neglect When He Needed Them

Mar 13, 2017 | aging, Alzheimer's disease, diminished cognition, elderly, finances for elders, handling money for aging parents, long term care, seniors finances

All his life Philip worked hard and was successful. He amassed wealth beyond expectations. He gave generously to all of his kids, buying them homes and bestowing money gifts. In fact giving kids money was the only way he really knew how to show he cared. Expressing love in other ways was not his thing. He and his wife lived a luxurious lifestyle: country club, exotic vacations, lavish parties, fancy cars. She ran the house and he ran the flourishing business.

It all looked great when he retired. Until his wife developed Alzheimer's disease. Things began to fall apart when he was78, with a wife becoming increasingly dependent and in need of care. He wasn't used to running the house. Things descended into disrepair. Then his vision got cloudy and his hearing started to go.

He expected his adult children to step up and be there. But entitled kids, used to having Dad hand them things without having to work for them, never did take much responsibility. If they needed something, Dad would just buy it for them. Now Dad needed more from them but none of them had ever learned about giving back. Communication was poor. If the conversation wasn't about money, no one had much to talk about.

Things broke down among the family members. They were never good at talking to each other or to their parents about anything of substance. Now that the parents were both in need of help they could not rely on their adult children to work on household management, or budgeting for care or doing needed repairs.

Philip found himself depressed. He looked at what he had created, all the wealth, all the things and somehow he felt a loss. Financial success had not led to family success.

But he decided to act. He decided that this part of his life was going to be meaningful before his end and he set to work.

He gathered his adult children in his home for a meeting. He was frank with them and revealed how sad and disappointed he felt. He revealed his fears, something he had never done. He told them he expected more from them. The kids looked at each other somewhat sheepishly. They admitted that they had been off in their own worlds. They told their father how much they wanted to be closer but just didn't know how. They asked him to be open to telling them he loved them. He asked them to express more caring by showing up and pitching in. The paid caregivers for the parents were great but they were not there all the time.

Agreements were made. Some stumbling and awkwardness happened at first. But as the next month passed, the kids finally started to show up with a schedule. And empty talk was replaced by family history, expressions of thanks and acknowledgment to each other of the changes they were making.

The last years for Philip were much better. He was able to express his feelings in ways he had never done before. Maybe age just made him not care about what people might think. It had a profound effect on his family. All of them grew closer, in spite of their differences. They learned to accept each other far better, led by Philip.

Philip passed away in peace at age 84. His story is one to share with any child who grew up in wealth and any parent who did not expect enough of the kids in a younger day. Adult children can learn to give more to parents as they age and become more vulnerable. Parents can learn to express love and affection apart from cash and objects. It's not too late in your advanced years to change for the better.

Carolyn Rosenblatt, RN, Elder Law Attorney, & Dr. Mikol Davis, Gerontologist co-founder of AgingInvestor.com

Smart Retiree’s 10 Point Checklist

Feb 27, 2017 | aging, long term care

You're in the planning business. You look ahead, analyze, budget and calculate. But your clients may not be on the same page in your view of the future, especially when they retire. They are busy being in denial that they may ever get ill and die. You can help them. In doing so, it may also make your job of talking about such issues as long-term care, budgeting and spending easier.

Many of us in this society have a very negative image about aging in general. We don't want to be "old". It is fueled by advertising on TV, movies, print media and other outlets with a consistent message: aging is bad, being younger and turning back the clock is good. We are a work ethic driven culture. When we are older and no longer "productive" we are generally seen as less valuable.

Then there is the fear and denial about dying and death. Our culture has been called the only one in the world that thinks of death as something optional. Note how we talk about it to family--"in case anything ever happens to me..." Besides it being a fantasy that maybe "something" won't happen to us, it keeps us from planning, from preparing our loved ones and from being responsible about our older years, possible declining health and the burden ignoring these things can put on our families. Reaching retirement age is a time to do planning about more than money.

Most people do not want to burden their loved ones. Most of them do not want to trouble adult children unnecessarily as they age. That is your best selling point for bringing up some important personal matters. These include how every senior and every retiree needs to plan for things in their own lives that go beyond how much money they've saved and how it will be spent having a great retirement. Has your client signed a Durable Power of Attorney document? Given the family all they would need in an emergency? Talked about who should keep the records and stored information all the heirs would need if your client becomes impaired? These are not about money particularly. These subjects are about responsibility and life cycle.

Here at AgingInvestor.com we see the messes people leave behind when they nurture the Great American Fantasy that losing independence won't happen to them and that they will live happily to age 100 and die peacefully in their sleep. Family members can spend years cleaning up the disaster their older loved ones leave because of failure to plan and simply provide access to information. It is truly not fair to anyone. It leads to anger, resentment, family conflicts and sometimes to loss of wealth through ignorance. We've heard it and seen it countless times.

To empower every retiree, we put a retiree's checklist together to help people avoid these disasters created by the fantasy. We want you to help them use it.

How can you do this?

You can give your clients this checklist next time you sit with them and review the portfolio. You can gently urge them to do what the list says is needed. We've broken down the essentials into 10 points, a "to do" list if you will. You can encourage them to take care of the items on the list, if they haven't already. In general, the to do list includes updating the estate plan, having critical documents in the right hands, providing necessary financial, computer and account information to trusted family and having a family meeting to educate one's heirs about the older person's affairs. This is how your client gets a family ready. This is how they avoid unduly burdening anyone. This is how they free their loved ones from distress and unnecessary work when they have to take action as an aging parent declines and passes away.

Some of your clients will brush off your suggestion. They love that Great American Fantasy and aren't about to give it up. Others will thank you as they have thanked us and will go forward. Their families will be forever grateful. You'll look like the caring, smart and responsible planner that you are. Get your free Smart Retiree's 10 Point Checklist now by clicking here.

By Carolyn Rosenblatt, RN, Elder Law Attorney, & Dr. Mikol Davis, Gerontologist co-founder of AgingInvestor.com

This Small Step Can Prevent Financial Disaster For Your Aging Clients

Jan 27, 2017 | aging, aging investor, declining health, diminished cognition, elder investor, elderly, finances for elders, financial advisors, financial capacity, financial elder abuse, financial judgement, handling money for aging parents, handling money for seniors, long term care, long term care insurance, medicare, senior investor, seniors finances

Do you have older clients who seem to be doing really well physically? Some of our aging folks are remarkably sharp and we can all be lulled into a false sense of security with them. This is a heads up warning about a real situation that you can perhaps help clients avoid by a simple step. Bear in mind that your older clients may be alert but still have trouble keeping track of the occasional bill. That can lead to a true financial disaster. Here's what happened to one person we met at AgingInvestor.com who could well be your client.

Ruth is 88, still quite independent, taking care of herself at home. She does her own shopping and cooking, drives and pays her own bills. Great at her age, right? But when it comes to memory, that's a problem from time to time. And forgetfulness plus an unforeseen glitch caused a financial nightmare for her. Here is what happened.

Ruth has Medicare and supplemental insurance. That extra 20% the supplement pays doesn't sound like a lot, unless you have a crisis and have to go to the hospital.

Ruth paid her bills by check each month. But sometimes her mail carrier made mistakes and put envelopes in the wrong box. That's just what happened with Ruth's supplemental insurance bill. She didn't pay the bill one month because she never got it. That was the glitch. Unfortunately that is exactly the month that she had a major health crisis and had to be hospitalized. She never knew that her supplemental insurer had missed a premium payment from her until they denied payment to the hospital for the amount due after Medicare paid the hospital in full. She was very upset and called them but they brushed her off when she told them what happened. She had never paid late nor had she ever missed a payment. They didn't care. Her bill for the amount Medicare didn't cover was over $80,000. They flatly refused to pay it.

She tried to call again and again but got nowhere. She sent a letter but received no response. Ruth's case is not the first time we've seen a situation when an older person fails to pay an insurance premium notice either because of illness, dementia, not receiving the bill or other valid reason. Some companies will allow reinstatement of coverage when the amount owed is paid in full. But Ruth's former insurer has been horrible; clearly to get out of the large bill they would have had to pay. They're probably happy about it but of course Ruth is distraught.

Now imagine that Ruth is your client. Most write checks by hand for paying bills, as they have done all their adult lives. Lots of people in their 80s don't use a computer or are only able to do so with many limitations. They don't use auto debit for paying bills automatically.

There is one thing you, the advisor, can do to prevent a disaster like Ruth's. Work with your aging client and their family to get them set up so that payments for ongoing, recurring expenses are auto debited from a bank account. This applies most especially to insurance premiums. As long as you are overseeing the finances for these older clients, think about this simple preventive strategy you can urge them to use to protect their financial safety. Sometimes no one thinks of it. Sometimes the family is also lulled into a false sense of security because the elder is so independent in other ways. Bill paying is a vulnerability and you can think of measures to make it less so.

That medical bill coming to a client because of a simple error, forgetfulness, or glitch can be a source of extreme stress. Take the time now to talk with your client about the prospect of auto pay for all of their recurring bills. Even if they are unsure of how to set it up, a family member, a friend or money manager can offer to do this for them. It's a small, basic measure but hugely helpful to prevent financial loss

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